Etiquette & Expectations

Frequently Asked Questions

  • A fragile body being, I am a deeply sensitive, caring individual with personal limits, needs, and boundaries that must be respected at all times. 

    I expect you to be a gentleman in all our interactions – before, during, and after our time together. 

    Please refrain from doing anything that would deteriorate your classy gentleman behavior while we are together, as this would end poorly for us both. 

    If I feel disrespected or endangered at any time, I will cancel our date immediately. No refunds.

  • Should you feel sick before our date please CANCEL your appointment and let me know and we can discuss further options from there.

    Before leaving your home for our date, please self-assess for symptoms. Ensure you have no flu-like symptoms or cough. Once arriving at our date and before greeting, I ask that you immediately wash your hands thoroughly for 30 seconds.

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    Vaccination Status: Fully Vaccinated - Moderna

    You can feel safe meeting with me. I have had 2 dosages of the Moderna COVID-19 vaccine in 2021. I test regularly and I continue to socially distance, wear a mask when necessary, and maintain immaculate hygiene.

    I host in clean upscale spaces and expect that you are also following COVID-19 and general good health practices.

    Should you feel sick after our appointment, please notify me immediately.

  • I have an ambitious career in my daytime hours however with enough notice or consent to pay a rush service fee to meet you dear whenever it is best for you to meet between the hours of 7AM to 11PM PST

    Dates that exceed past 11PM midnight are considered an overnight and need to be booked as such or compensated as such

  • Just like you, I am a human being with a bright future ahead and loved ones who care about me and my safety. Screening ensures I feel safe and comfortable being intimate and vulnerable with you. 

    Refusal to screen will result in a permanent block and I am not comfortable meeting you. No exceptions.

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    Here are the options I offer to ensure you are a person I feel comfortable meeting with:

    • Employment/ LinkedIn Profile Verification: 

    This is the quickest and most efficient screening option. It is also available if you are retired, high-profile, or self-employed. I have a discreet unpublished e-mail address, LinkedIn account, and phone number to maintain your privacy. Please contact me so I can walk you through the process.

    • P411 Screening Profile

    Please sign up for P411.com and send me a date request from within the site and all correspondence will be held within the site.

    • Government Issued Identification (Passport or Driver’s License)

    If either of the above options does not suffice for your situation I do accept a photocopy of your official government Driver’s License/ ID or International Passport. You may hide your address for privacy but all else needs to be visible on your ID submission 

    • One Hour Social Date Screening

    This option is available for a public date meeting over a meal, coffee, tea, or drinks.  — $500 hour prepaid

    ** Social date rates can not be used towards a future booking.

    • Selfie Screening

    A current full face selfie photo with you holding a sign with all of the following information on it: today’s date, full legal name, age, & either your phone number or email written at the bottom. 100% prepaid booking as a non-refundable deposit.

    • Escort References

    Due to poor experiences and untrustworthy individuals I no longer accept reference requests from others in the industry, my apologies.

    If you have seen of my intimate friends and they have recommended you please mention this in your correspondence to me. Thank you

  • Deposits are required and ensure that my time and efforts in preparing & creating an extraordinary date are valued and respected. 

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    Deposits for 90 MINUTE dates or shorter are NON-REFUNDABLE

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    WHEN SENDING THE DEPOSIT PLEASE LEAVE THE MEMO BOX EMPTY

    Most cash transfer services are not sex worker friendly and posting anything in the memo or comment box related to our date can put both our accounts in jeopardy or be permanently banned for both of us.

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    FORMS OF DEPOSIT ACCEPTED

  • Deposits for 1 hour dates or shorter are NON-REFUNDABLE

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    • Cancellations made with over 72 hours notice will have 50% of the deposit refunded via original deposit method used

    • Cancellations made UNDER 72 hours notice will result in the deposit being used towards a future rescheduled date within 90 calendar days

    • 2nd cancellation made within 90 days and the deposit is forfeited, a new deposit will need to be made to rebook

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    IF SONOMI CANCELS…

    In the incredibly rare event that I would need to cancel our plans; after sheepish apologies, will result in an immediate refund of your deposit sent first, followed by an explanation email or text message sent shortly after. 

    OR I can also hold onto it for a rain-check for a rescheduled date on my end, and likely offer some complimentary added time to our next engagement, like meeting for cocktails before or after.

  • Due to an increase in booking requests, I have instituted a 3-email/3 text message policy. 

    I will not correspond beyond 3 emails/text messages without a deposit being sent. 

    An administrative fee will apply if your correspondence requires more attention.

    I value my time being “present” and my ability to focus on my civilian life business, academic pursuits, as well as other interests in my free time. 

    Due to this, I will be attending to my emails & text messages twice a day; once in the AM & once in the PM. 

    Thank you for understanding.

  • Traffic and unforeseen events can be frustrating, and can appear at the least convenient of times - I completely understand. 

    I offer a 15 minute grace period, after that, I'm afraid your arrival time does affect the length of your booking experience

  • To avoid any awkward moments, my gratuity must be presented immediately at the beginning of our date in an unsealed envelope. Place it on the table if you’re visiting me or in the bathroom if I’m visiting you.

    If we’re meeting in a public space (or you want to impress me), please have it in a funny greeting card, a purse found on my wishlist, or slipped between the pages of your favorite book that you’d think I’d love (I truly enjoy reading).

  • Excluding my Travel Experiences and Monthly Arrangements — My gratuity is non-negotiable and is for my time and company only. 

    Anything that happens within our time together is between two sober consenting 21+ years old adults.

    Please have my gratuity made obvious and in plain sight so that I may receive it within the first few minutes upon meeting. The gratuity can be inside an open envelope, inside a book you enjoy, or in a gift bag if we are meeting in public.  

    In person, I accept cash only and please try to give larger bills if possible, thank you. 

    All dates are final, no refunds or exchanges.

  • Due to my civilian fulltime career - I rarely do tour, please inquire about possible travel to your city in the near future - SonomiSavoy@Proton.me

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    BUT if you would like to have me anywhere you are, I'm happy to board a plane, hop on a train, ferry a boat ride, or simply drive to you - with a little bit of notice. 

    Train/Fly/Boat Me To You — Travel rates are provided on my INVESTMENT

  • If you don't see your city on my calendar (or if you'd just like a very fun distraction one afternoon on your next business trip) - I'm happy to fly, train, boat, or drive to you - drop me a note, and let's plan!

    100% All-Inclusive Travel Expenses Fee + 20% deposit are required in advance.

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    🌎 DOMESTIC | NORTH AMERICA - CANADA, USA, MEXICO, CARIBBEAN, JAPAN, & HONG KONG

    2 HOUR Minimum + $2000 All-inclusive travel fee

    🌏 INTERNATIONAL | WORLDWIDE - EVERYWHERE ELSE

    Contingent upon location + $4000 All-inclusive travel fee - Please Inquire

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    What’s included in the additional “Travel Fee”?:

    My business class airfare or higher, checked luggage, UBER/taxi transportation, and 4/5 star upscale hotel initial accommodations, are all made by me once travel fee is transferred and therefore the travel fee is non-refundable.

  • Incall or Outcall

    INCALL

    All first dates must be at an upscale hotel for my privacy and safety

    For clients who I have established positive rapport with - I am happy to invite you to my posh abode in Foggy Bottom or Murray Hill/Gramercy Park in NYC.

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    OUTCALL

    For my utmost safety I do not meet clients at their homes or private residences on first dates.

    2 HOUR Minimum for OUTCALL dates

    I can meet you at any upscale hotel (4/5 Star) in Washington DC, New York City, NY or wherever you are!

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    ** If you are unable to put the room under your name, I am happily willing to help by putting it under mine. Please understand that hotel funds will need to be transferred to me prior to our date, and you must accommodate all hotel expenses for our time together.

  • Please be mindful of the appointment duration. 

    IF WE RUN OVER TIME I ASSUME YOU ARE EXTENDING THE DATE.

    If you wish to extend our date and I have an open availability I would be delighted to spend more time with you. 

    Please be prepared to take care of the impromptu extension promptly.

    The rate for in-date extension is the rate of my current 1 hour. 

    Please visit my INVESTMENT page for current rates.

  • Please practice immaculate hygiene, I thoroughly enjoy being close and intimate with someone and would hate to kill the mood by asking you to refresh yourself during our time together

    I am very sensitive to the smell of smoke including; cigarettes, and cigars, and kindly ask that you are fully refreshed before we meet. 

    If you need to refresh upon arrival, I am happy to offer you my safe, clean, & comfortable shower + never used mouthwash + toothbrushes

  • Note: I am no longer taking requests but can be gently guided if you have something in mind (ex: casual, athletic, dressy, black dress, etc.)

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    As a professional seamstress, rest assure that I can be appropriately dressed and groomed for any occasion that may be. 

    I can be your down-to-earth concert goer in a leather jacket, jeans, & tee to your seductive dressed-to-kill model for the red carpet.

    If you would like to see me in something specific, be the one who gifts it to me ☺️

    Please feel encouraged to buy the outfit and bring it to our date or send me a gift card of the store where you found the attire you seek and I’ll be wearing exactly what you desired by the time of our date

  • If you are interested in having a mutually exclusive arrangement together, please be encouraged to enquire with me.

    Monthly arrangements are open to negotiation.

    SonomiSavoy@Proton.me

  • Should you be going to a destination that is high on my Bucket List Destinations found on my EXPERIENCES page, I would be very willing to tailor my rates based on the length of the trip and activities itinerary, so send me an email letting me know where and when you'd like me to meet you and what we will be doing or what you had in mind for our trip together 

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    ALL travel dates require 100% of the travel fee + a deposit of 20% of my hourly rate to secure your requested F/B/T/MTY date. (Fly - Boat - Train Me to You)

    Please give me a couple (2 - 4) hours per day to myself to relax, recover (gym/yoga), and get pretty for you. (It's not personal. I ask my family and friends for this too when we travel together, I’m still a sensitive introvert at heart)

    I need at least 6 hours minimum of uninterrupted slumber and one cup of tea to function before intimacy or activities

  • MY GIFT WISHLIST

    I am always deeply grateful and appreciative of luxurious surprises and spoilings. And be sure to know that a man who spoils me will most certainly be spoiled in return.  

    After all, what woman doesn’t like to be pampered with something unexpected and special?

    It’s definitely the easiest way to set yourself apart as the gentleman I adore and cherish in return. 

    PLEASE NO CHOCOLATES (I’M ALLERGIC) AND NO LILY FLOWERS (THEY ARE POISONOUS TO MY CATS 😢)

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    If you would like to bring a drink or bite to eat for our date please feel encouraged to do so UNOPENED & SEALED, a good drink can do more than just create a lively atmosphere. 

    I adore a wonderful Moscato, Italian table wine or Spanish wines; Barbaresco, exquisite high-quality teas, and always gullible to a delightful treat such as lemon tarts, custard cremes, butterscotch, caramels, or macarons.

  • YES! It’s always fun when more of my friends are around.

    **Highest Rate Matched for all providers involved - 2 HOUR minimum

    Please reach out via e-mail, I’d love to have a friend come play with us!

    Please note that for my safety and privacy I only do duos with my trusted circle of friends at this time and not accepting new duo friends at this time.

  • I love couples. HOWEVER, a social screening date needs to be completed before having an intimate one together.

    Please email me for more information: SonomiSavoy@Proton.me

  • My company and personal space is a place of respect, safety, compassion, acceptance, and love.

    ALL gender identities, races, religions, body shapes, weight classes, ages (over 21 years old), sexual orientations, military & firefighters, and those with disabilities are welcome. 

    MISOGYNY, RACISM, SEXISM, XENOPHOBIA, ETC - WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.

  • Being a very private woman, for my safety and yours, Rest assure your privacy is always respected & upheld at all times.

    I firmly expect you to protect and keep strictly private what happens between us secret, my personal information, our time together, & other sex worker's information by not gossiping to or about other sex workers, clients, or posting on review boards about who I am and our time together, and vice-versa.

    Please respect my privacy and ensure my safety and do not post any reviews, any comments of me on boards of any kind, or on social media without my consent - I handle all private affairs with trust and delicacy. Rest assure your anonymity is always respected.

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    IF I FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ON A DATE WITH THIS BEHAVIOR, I WILL IMMEDIATELY TERMINATE OUR DATE WITH NO REFUNDS.

    IF YOU HAVE BROKEN THIS TRUST, I WILL IMMEDIATELY & PERMANENTLY TERMINATE ALL COMMUNICATION WITH YOU AND REPORT YOU TO THE NATIONAL BLACKLIST.